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How to Melt Anger and Boost Love

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Written by: Jude Bijou, M.A., M.F.T.

How to Melt Anger and Boost LovePhysically wanting to strike out or viewing other people, things, or situations as enemies isn’t going to get you where you want to go. In fact, it could land you up in prison or equally worse, locked up in an emotional prison of being alone forever...

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Are You Sure It's Anger That You're Feeling?

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Are You Sure It's Anger That You're Feeling?Many people who are striving to be tolerant and loving and kind suppress their own personal power because they mistakenly perceive the energy of personal power to be anger.

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The Mere Stress Of Sitting In Traffic Can Lead To More Crime

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Written by: Louis-Philippe Beland and Daniel Brent, Louisiana State University

The Mere Stress Of Sitting In Traffic Can Lead To More CrimeSociety pays a heavy price for traffic. It leads to lost time, more pollution and increased spending on gasoline. But there may be yet another hidden cost of traffic.

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Why Alcohol Leads To More Violence Than Other Drugs

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Written by: Stephen Bright, Edith Cowan University and Martin Williams, Monash University

Why Alcohol Leads To More Violence Than Other DrugsMainstream media tend to report more stories about illicit drugs than alcohol. This is despite one study finding 47% of homicides in Australia over a six-year period were alcohol-related.

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How Anyone, Even You, Can Inadvertently Become A Troll

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Written by: Taylor Kubota, Stanford University

How Anyone, Even You, Might Become An Internet Troll Internet trolls, by definition, are disruptive, combative, and often unpleasant with their offensive or provocative online posts designed to disturb and upset.

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Why and How to Stop Focusing on Differences

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Written by: Dr. Eric Pearl and Frederick Ponzlov

Focusing on Differences Creates Disharmony or Joy?The penchant for human beings to discover how unalike they are, how distinct they are - it all has to do with ego. Where we need to put the energy now is in how similar we are...

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Transforming Anger into Positive Action

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Written by: Jude Bijou, M.A., M.F.T.

Anger Begets Destructive Thoughts, Words, and Actions

Anger can lead to destructive behavior, but it can also be harnessed for positive change. By recognizing and expressing anger constructively, individuals can move beyond negative reactions and embrace acceptance. This article offers practical steps to channel anger healthily and create a plan for resolution, ultimately fostering kindness and love in relationships.

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The Difficulty of Forgiveness: Seeing Through Their Eyes

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Written by: Michael J. Chase

The Difficulty of Forgiveness: Seeing Through Their EyesMost people will categorically agree that one of the most difficult emotions to express is forgiveness. More lives have been destroyed by bitterness and the inability to forgive than perhaps any other negative emotion. Even the most minuscule issues that we refuse to let go of can poison...

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Handle With Care Words That Insult, Offend And Wound

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Written by: Howard Manns, Monash University

Handle With Care Words That Insult, Offend And WoundOur linguistic and legal obsession with “insult” and “offence” is nothing new. In 1832, Sydney resident William McLoughlin was given 50 lashes for using the word “damned” against his master.

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Freedom from the Grip of Anger

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Written by: Michael Gluckman

Freedom from the Grip of AngerIf there is one emotion that seems to get out of control, it is anger. We express it, and then we regret it. Repressing anger does no good. It just builds up, and then we feel as if we have a bomb that’s about to explode. Can we put unwanted anger to rest?

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There Are A Mix Of Factors That Link Aggression And Hawkish Views

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Written by: Gillian Kiley, Brown University

There Are A Mix Of Factors That Link Aggression And Hawkish ViewsIndividual tendencies toward physical aggression may lead someone to support aggressive foreign policy interventions, new research suggests.

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Are You Sure You're Really Feeling Anger?

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Are You Sure You're Really Feeling Anger?So many women are still afraid of being called angry, still afraid of owning their own power, still of afraid of being called a “bitch” or not being feminine or not being spiritual. Which in reality translates into being afraid to say no to the people around them who are actually stepping on their toes!

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Strategies to Combat Negative Emotions and Stress

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Written by: Lisa Garr

How To  Keep from Getting Sucked into Your Rage

Living an aware life involves recognizing and avoiding the black holes of negativity that can disrupt well-being. From managing stress addiction to employing techniques like laughter and naps, individuals can learn to foster a positive mindset. Practical strategies for stress relief and awareness can significantly improve mental and physical health.

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Why Black Friday Leads Shoppers To Behave Badly

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Written by: Jaeha Lee, North Dakota State University

Why Black Friday Leads Shoppers To Behave Badly

The manic nature of Black Friday has often led shoppers to engage in fistfights and other misbehavior in their desperation to snatch up the last ultra-discounted television, computer or pair of pants.

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Genes May Point the Way to Control of Anger & Aggression

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Written by: Tom Denson

Genes May Point the Way to Anger, Aggression & Control

Everyone knows someone with a quick temper – it might even be you. And while scientists have known for decades that aggression is hereditary, there is another biological layer to those angry flare-ups: self-control.

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Anger: Friend or Foe?

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Written by: John Cianciosi

Anger: Friend or Foe?

How can we motivate ourselves to overcome anger? We might begin by considering the nature of anger to see whether it is a necessary, helpful, or pleasant state of mind. In other words, does anger improve the quality of our lives in any way?

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Learning to Shift from Anger to Love

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Written by: Jude Bijou, M.A., M.F.T.

Learning to Shift from Anger to Love

Anger is in everyone’s emotional constitution to one degree or another. It oozes out in big and little ways, no matter how valiant the attempt to disguise it. It shows up when you act meanspirited, incon­siderate or bossy, or when you just find yourself frustrated about...

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A Shortcut to Living the Peaceful Life: Changing Our Minds

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Written by: Karen Casey

A Shortcut to Living the Peaceful Life: Changing Our MindsChanging our thoughts can be as easy as A, B, C. And that's the key to creating a different set of experiences that leads to the different life many of us deserve. One of my favorite ideas from A Course in Miracles is...

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In Cases of Miscommunication or Misunderstandings, Mediation May Be Appropriate

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Written by: Starhawk

In Cases of Miscommunication or Misunderstandings, Mediation May Be Appropriate -- by Starhawk.

Mediation is appropriate in cases of miscommunication or misunderstandings, to clear up hurt feelings and hurtful interactions. Mediation implies that we can find a win-win solution, that no one is either completely right or completely wrong and that both parties can come to share a mutual purpose.

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Two Sides of a Prison Wall

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Written by: Alan Cohen

A young Japanese man named Shui was riding on a crowded train when a belligerent drunk made his way through the train car and began to rough up passengers. Shui had studied martial arts for many years, yet never before had he been forced into a public confrontation. Shui felt his blood begin to boil, and...

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Engaging the Inner Teenager for Healthier Choices

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Written by: Marie T. Russell

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Many adults struggle with an inner teenager that resists healthy habits. By acknowledging this voice and fostering a dialogue, individuals can collaborate with themselves to make better lifestyle choices. This approach not only promotes self-discipline but also enhances the relationship with personal well-being.

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