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Don't Give Up On Your Relationship

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Written by: Kelly Johnson, M.D.

Don't Give Up On Your Relationship

Can any two people create and maintain a great relationship? You may not think so, because in your search for love, you've only met with failure and disappointment. You may have come to expect that any love relationship you have will end up being quite painful...

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Share Your Secret and Discover Inner Peace

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Written by: Bill Chandler

Share Your Secret and Discover Inner Peace

Quietly, to yourself, think of the one thing you most want no one to know about you. Maybe you had an affair, or a nose job; maybe you stole something once, cheated on your income taxes or had an abortion. Sometimes the dirty deed seems absurd. I had a woman confess to me in tears that years ago she had...

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Your Top 3 Ideal Qualities In A Partner Aren’t So Unique

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Written by: Karen Nikos

Your Top 3 Ideal Qualities In A Partner Aren’t So Unique

The qualities people list as ideal in potential partners don’t really reflect personal preferences so much as they are just generally positive qualities, according to new research.

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How Can I Love Better, Without Conditions or Expectations?

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Written by: Osho

How Can I Love Better, Without Conditions or Expectations?

Love is enough unto itself. It needs no betterment. It is perfect as it is; it is not in any way meant to be more perfect. The very desire shows a misunderstanding about love and its nature. Love is not a quantity. It is a quality, which is immeasurable.

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Dating Over Zoom? Don't Be Surprised If Those Online Sparks Fizzle In Person

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Written by: Sheril Kirshenbaum

Dating Over Zoom? Don't Be Surprised If Those Online Sparks Fizzle In Person

For those dipping their toes into the dating pool during stay-at-home orders, it’s been like swimming in a version of Netflix’s reality series “Love is Blind.”

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Common Misunderstandings About Preventing Pregnancy

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Written by: Richard Gunderman

Common Misunderstandings About Preventing Pregnancy

Sex is one of the most natural things in the world – none of us would be here without it. Yet there are many things about sex that need to be learned.

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How To Listen To Your Loved Ones With Empathy When You Yourself Are Feeling Strain

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Written by: Annmarie Caño

How To Listen To Your Loved Ones With Empathy When You Yourself Are Feeling Strain

COVID-19 has revealed a great many things about our world, including the vulnerabilities inherent in our economic, health care and educational institutions.

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Love Yourself, Then, Love Your Neighbor As Yourself

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Written by: Sylvia Browne

Love Yourself,Then, Love Your Neighbor As Yourself

You've been inundated with erroneous information. It becomes terribly hard to try to figure out what's right. You're inundated by all types of moralistic behavior, commandments, church rules, and law. Behavioral modification is probably the most simplistic.

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Isolating Together Is Challenging – And Relationship Stresses Can Affect Biological Functioning

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Written by: Hannah L. Schacter

Isolating Together Is Challenging – And Relationship Stresses Can Affect Biological Functioning

In the wake of COVID-19 social distancing and stay-at-home orders, young couples may find themselves spending more time with each other than ever before.

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How To Create a Caring, Nurturing Relationship and Be Cherished

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Written by: Marilyn Graman & Maureen Walsh

How To Be Cherished and Create a Caring and Nurturing Relationship
Relationships need care and nurturing, and often it's hard to know what to do. You have probably been searching for reasons why your relationship isn't as warm, loving, and compassionate as you'd like. It is natural for relationships to have an ebb and flow, to grow more or less intimate as circumstances shift...

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Connecting Emotionally: An Essential Part of Happy Relationships

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Written by: John M. Gottman, Ph.D. and Joan DeClaire

Connecting Emotionally: An Essential Part of Happy Relationships
Whether people are struggling to save a marriage, to cooperate in a family crisis, or to build rapport with a difficult boss, they usually have one thing in common: They need to share emotional information that can help them feel connected.

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Looking For Love On A Dating App? You Might Be Falling For A Ghost

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Written by: Lisa Portolan

Looking For Love On A Dating App? You Might Be Falling For A Ghost

If you unpick the threads, you will quickly find much of the falling occurred in the mind. Many artefacts that go towards creating intimacy are imagined.

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Notes on Intimacy and Having a Genuine Loving Relationship

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Written by: Shepherd Hoodwin

Notes on Intimacy
Once you are in a relationship, how can you develop intimacy? One key is honesty. Some people tell little lies about themselves when they first begin a relationship. This is destructive to intimacy, because your partner will never be completely sure if you are telling the truth. It is much easier to maintain credibility if you...

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Is Love Just A Fleeting High Fuelled By Brain Chemicals?

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Written by: Parashkev Nachev

Is Love Just A Fleeting High Fuelled By Brain Chemicals?

It is no accident that arguably the most erotic line of English poetry is all prepositions. The essence of love, at least of passionately romantic love, is revealed in its very grammar.

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How China Does Valentine's Day

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Written by: Wei Li

How China Does Valentine's Day

Americans celebrate love on Feb. 14, Valentine’s Day — a holiday named for Saint Valentine, a third-century Roman clergyman who secretly performed weddings for soldiers forbidden to marry under Emperor Claudius II.

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What Makes A Good Relationship?

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Written by: Eileen Workman

What Makes A Good Relationship?
What makes a good relationship? A willingness to surrender one’s heart—totally and without reservation to your Beloved—and to trust that, when you leap together into the precipice of the unknown, you will be able to reach confidently for one another and find solace or joy in equal measure through that loving communion.

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Where to Find the Love of Your Life

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Written by: Alan Cohen

Where to Find the Love of Your Life
After many years of coaching and leading seminars, I have discovered two areas that most people ask about most frequently: prosperity and relationships. Most people are looking for their love mate, or, if they have one, are seeking a better connection.

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Where Will We Find The Love We Desire?

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Written by: Alan Cohen

Where Will We Find The Love We Desire?
We experience repetitious patterns in relationship, work, or health; different actors are showing up to play out the same role. Eventually we recognize that it cannot be an accident that the same type of people keep doing the same things; it is we who have drawn them according to the signals we are radioing to central casting.

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Why Homosexuality May Have Evolved For Social, Not Sexual Reasons

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Written by: Andrew Barron

Why Homosexuality May Have Evolved For Social, Not Sexual Reasons
How did homosexuality in humans evolve? Typically, this question is posed as a paradox.

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Facing Ourselves: The Dynamics of Intimacy and Love

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Written by: John Robbins and Ann Mortifee

Facing Ourselves: The Dynamics of Intimacy and Love
Despite the degree to which sexuality permeates the culture, the collective guilt of history can still be felt. We have been socialized to be suspicious of pleasure, to live removed from our bodies, and to maintain a tight rein over our feelings. In a culture riddled with guilt...

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What Your Domestic Arguments Are Really About

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Written by: The School of Life

What Your Domestic Arguments Are Really About
Beneath most fights is an attempt to get the other to respond to your emotional reality and sense of justice.

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