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What Causes & Stops Panic Attacks? Understanding Agoraphobia and PTSD

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Written by: Hal Mathew

What Causes & Stops Panic Attacks? Understanding Agoraphobia, Panic Attacks, and PTSDSomeone with panic disorder does not know how to turn off the false alarm process once it gets going and must endure a terrifying experience of unknown duration, even if there is nothing apparent to fear. We all take in squintillions of units of information daily. Our brains have to filter data so that we can conduct some what rational lives without being overwhelmed.

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Learning How to Fail: Taking Risks and Learning From Mistakes

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Written by: Art Markman, PhD

Learning How to Fail: Taking Risks and Learning From MistakesWe do not teach people how to fail in our education system. The purpose of exams is to get questions correct. The people who are rewarded in school are the ones who get the best grades, not the ones who take the biggest risks or the ones who learn from their mistakes.

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The Impact of Self-Promotion on Relationships

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Written by: Irene Scopelliti, City University London

How Sharing Your Success Is Perceived As Bragging  More Often Than You Think

Research reveals that self-promotion can backfire, leading to negative perceptions among peers. Individuals often overestimate the joy others feel in response to their achievements while underestimating annoyance. Strategies like empathy and perspective-taking can mitigate these effects, fostering healthier social interactions both online and offline.

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Strategies to Combat Negative Emotions and Stress

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Written by: Lisa Garr

How To  Keep from Getting Sucked into Your Rage

Living an aware life involves recognizing and avoiding the black holes of negativity that can disrupt well-being. From managing stress addiction to employing techniques like laughter and naps, individuals can learn to foster a positive mindset. Practical strategies for stress relief and awareness can significantly improve mental and physical health.

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Reinventing How We Play the Game Called Life

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Written by: Ingrid Martine, M.A., PCC

Reinventing How We Play the Game Called LifeOnly in my life’s rear-view mirror do I see that I began to write “The Un-Game” long ago. As a cross-culturally naïve eleven-year-old, my world was rocked upon my arrival in New York City with my immigrant family. The assault on my German mind-set felt like an earthquake snatching away all my precious, unquestioned certainty. 

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How We Project Our Goals Onto Other People

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Written by: James Devitt-NYU

How We Project Our Goals Onto Other PeopleThe more committed we are to achieving a goal—catching a train, buying a movie ticket, getting groceries—the more likely we are to assume others have exactly the same objective. The new study by New York University psychology researcher Janet Ahn points to the types of assumptions we make about others’ behavior, which may have an impact on social interaction.

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Do We Learn Better When We’re Punished?

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Written by: Gaia Remerowski-Washington U-St. Louis

Do We Learn Better When We’re Punished?A simple experiment with a small group of college students suggests that punishments influence behavior more than rewards. In fact, punishments—in this case, losing money tokens—had a measured impact two to three times great than winning money. The results appear in the journal Cognition.

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A New Way to Receive Appreciation: Can You Handle It?

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

A New Way to Receive Appreciation: Can You Handle It?There are two different types of acknowledgment. There are compliments which are more superficial and then there are deeper appreciations that involve your character and inner qualities. How do you handle acknowledgment from others?

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Resisting, Repressing, and Ignoring Unpleasant Emotions Doesn’t Work

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Resisting, Repressing and Ignoring Unpleasant Emotions Doesn’t WorkLife teaches us that we cannot be released from powerful, stressful emotions by resisting, ignoring, or repressing them – no matter how hard we try. In fact, life teaches us just the opposite. We learn from experience that resisting, repressing and ignoring unpleasant emotions just tend to make things worse.

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Reflections Before Good-bye: The Four Things That Matter Most

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Written by: Ira Byock M.D.

Reflections Before Good-bye: The Four Things That Matter MostMahatma Mohandas Gandhi once advised, “We must become the change we want to see in the world.” Perhaps if we were each to expand forgiveness, gratitude, and love in our own lives, the collective influence of our healthy, loving relationships would reverberate across our generations and into the future.

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Changing Your Own Mind and Getting Out of Your Own Way

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Written by: Hal Mathew

Changing Your Own Mind and Getting Out of Your Own WayMost of us walk around with heads busy as beehives, aware of some thoughts as they come and go but not fully aware of the buzz of mental activity just beneath the surface. Every once in a while, it’s a good idea to stop and ask yourself, What was I thinking? 

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The Path to Smart Change Requires Patience and Persistence

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Written by: Art Markman, PhD

The Path to Smart Change Requires Patience and PersistenceI have been playing for around twelve years now, and I still take lessons. The best lessons I have are the ones in which I leave feeling like I don’t really know anything about playing at all. Dur­ing those lessons, my teacher has identified yet another weakness in my playing. I have to learn new skills to overcome those weak­nesses to get better.

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Love, Gratitude, or Trust: Which Is More Important?

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Written by: Barry Vissell

Trust Comes FirstTrust. Not trust. Trust. Not trust. The human free will tries to insert its dominion. Trust in a higher power is the most difficult thing to sustain, and the most important thing to sustain. I can’t see angels, but I trust they are there helping me every step of my journey.

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Deviant Behavior: Why It Takes Guts To Go Against The Crowd

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Written by: Clifton B. Parker, Stanford University

against the crowd 3 15“Deviant individuals can exist in almost every society, even in the most strict and ruthless ones such as Nazi Germany. These deviant group members serve as an opposition to the opinions of the majority and can also differ from the majority in their emotional experience.”

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Time to Wake Up: Matching Your Thoughts and Words With Your Actions

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Written by: Rashmi Khilnani

Time to Wake Up: Matching Your Thoughts and Words With Your ActionsMany of you have your crown chakra and third eye open and connected to very high vibrational states and yet the heart remains broken, hurt, or only conditionally opened. It is of utmost importance to have a balanced opening and clearing of all your chakras. The more efficiently you heal your unresolved aspects of self...

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Betrayal and the Gift of Forgiveness

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

Betrayal and the Gift of ForgivenessHave you ever been lied to or betrayed by someone you loved and trusted? Has anyone not believed you when you were telling the truth? Has anyone you loved walked away from the relationship and refused to try to work out the differences? Everyone has been hurt by someone else. How do we get rid of the hurt and move on with our lives. How can we forgive?

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Creating a New Dream of Life Guided by the Truth of Our Emotions

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Written by: Ray Dodd

Creating a New Dream of Life Guided by the Truth of Our EmotionsIn order to change any of the beliefs that are holding you back from creating the life you want, it’s important to understand how they were formed and what got you to this point. For many years behavioral scientists have studied human infants to determine what their experience is and how they develop.

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Diving into Our Fears and Overcoming Them

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Written by: Nora Caron

Diving into Our Fears and Overcoming ThemMy first spiritual teacher told me a phrase that echoed in my head for months; “You don’t know what love is because you’re stuck in your fears. Face your fears and you will begin to know what love feels like.” I sat with these words, realizing how many fears controlled my life and my happiness. I had never realized how afraid I was deep inside...

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How to Get Out of a Coma & Be the Director of Your Life

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Written by: Alan Cohen

How to Get Out of a Coma & Be the Director of Your Own LifeIn the Book of Genesis we are told that “a deep sleep fell over Adam,” but nowhere in the Bible does it say that he woke up. We are all Adam, still immersed in the dream of limitation. We have become sleepwalkers, trudging through our days wondering who we are and why we are here.

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Surrendering to the Fires of Change in Your Life

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Written by: Susan L. Westbrook, PhD.

Surrendering to the Fires of Change in Our LifeThe concept of surrender is often confused with submission. No matter how you define it, or under what conditions, surrender is a willful, not a passive act. The element of choice in surrender is an important consideration when we are discussing its expression in our lives.

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The Attitude of Service: How To Brighten Up the World

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Written by: Pam Grout

The Attitude of Service: How To Brighten Up the WorldDespite what Madison Avenue would like us to believe, that vacation to the Riviera, that Chrysler PT Cruiser, that anti-aging cream is not the secret to happiness. There's only one thing that unlocks the door to true peace of mind. Serving a purpose bigger than...

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