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Can Watching Movies Increase Your Empathy For Others?

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Written by: Christopher Zumski Finke, YES! Magazine

Can Watching Movies Increase Your Empathy For Others?Can something as simple as watching movies—and empathizing with fictional characters—help generate more compassion and understanding in the real world?

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The Greater Design of Evolution: The Collective Rise of Consciousness

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Written by: Barbara Marx Hubbard

The Greater Design of Evolution: The Collective Rise of ConsciousnessThe history of our species is brutal, tragic in the cruelty we have afflicted upon one another, upon other species, and upon Earth herself. Our situation has come to a critical stage. Are there some heretofore hidden processes in us that we could activate, some homeopathic remedies for our violence that could stimulate more empathy, connectedness, and love?

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How You Can Change Your Inner Critic Habit

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Written by: Lorraine Flaherty

 Can You Change Your Inner Critic Habit?For the majority of people if they turned on a radio and the station was negative and critical, fearful, whining, or complaining they would turn it off. Most people would take control of the situation and choose something that would be more enjoyable and more productive. You may wish to take some time to tune in and really become aware of the background station that you are tuned into...

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Poggio Bustone: Knowing We are Forgiven

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Written by: Barry Vissell

Poggio Bustone: Knowing We are ForgivenI closed my eyes, preparing to list off my offenses. Within minutes, I felt complete forgiveness for all my actions! My first thought was, “Wait. This was too easy! I haven’t worked and sweated hard enough to earn complete forgiveness. I haven’t even gone through the whole list.”

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Why Not Give Yourself A Break About Trying To Be Perfect?

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Why Not Give Yourself A Break About Trying To Be Perfect?In my daily work as a therapist/coach I've discovered there is one thing that we all have in common. We are all, everyone including me, so amazingly unkind and hard on ourselves. The truth is, I have never met anyone who is not super critical of themselves and who doesn't have unrealistic expectations when it comes to being a so-called "perfect" human being.

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How To Free Yourself from Regretting the Choices You’ve Made

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Written by: Noelle Sterne, Ph.D.

How To Free Yourself from Regretting the Choices You’ve MadeDo you regret choices you’ve made, opportunities you think you’ve lost, time you see as wasted? If you’re vigorously shaking your head up and down, please stop and listen a moment. You’re succumbing to self-condemnation. When we do, we cultivate a downward-spiraling sense of self-worth...

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Remembering To Say Thank You Is More Important Than You Think

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

Remembering To Say Thank YouYou might think that people know you are grateful, so you don’t have to share it. But remember that expressing your gratitude is a special gift for you as well. I feel very far from perfect in remembering to say thank you, and yet it has become something that is very important to me...

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Follow Your Passion and Stop Limiting Yourself

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Follow Your Passion and Stop Limiting YourselfWe all know when we are following our passion or our heart’s desire because it feels right. Everyone has experienced this feeling of ‘rightness’ at some time in his/her life. It’s called integrity. And it’s easy to recognize. It’s a sense of real comfort. A feeling that life is good and that life is moving freely in and through you.

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Adopting Perspective In The Face of Challenge

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Written by: Greg S. Reid

Adopting Perspective In The Face of ChallengeFor many, the first sign of difficulties can be enough for them to become discouraged and stop doing what they intended, while others find the determination to discover another way to prevail. Rather than giving up, they look for the opportunity within the challenge—and it’s there, always.

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How to Surrender Your Self-Doubts Completely

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Written by: Janet Lynn Roseman, PhD.

How to Surrender Your Self-Doubts CompletelyWhen circumstances in our lives are too overwhelming, chaotic, frightening, or out of our control, the best response, based on courageous wisdom, is to release the circumstances. This is not always easy, but it can be done. This exercise will help you give form to your feelings and provide you tools for surrender.

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What Is Living Consciously and How Is It Done?

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Written by: Karen R. Koenig

What Is Living Consciously and How Is It Done?No one does this conscious-living thing perfectly, so the idea isn’t to always be grounded in the present, but to be there as often as possible, certainly more often than not; know when you’re slipping out of it; and be able to bring yourself back as quickly as possible.

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A Day of Forgiving Dissolves the Armoring Over the Heart

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Written by: Ondrea Levine

A Day of Forgiving Dissolves the Armoring Over the Heart“You owe me” is resentment. “I owe you” is guilt. And the longer our interactions go on like this, the more impoverished we become. We lose our balance, the heart is thrown askew. The gut tightens. The eyes cannot open fully. But forgiveness rebalances the mind and brings kindness to the senses.

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Appreciating The Connection to a Hummingbird and All Life

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Written by: Regina Cates

Appreciating Our Connection to All LifeHolding the hummingbird was a gift. It was an awesome privilege to be given thirty unforgettable minutes when time stood still and I held the most exquisite creature in my hands, felt its warmth, and marveled at its magnificence.

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Get Off Your Cross, Somebody Needs the Wood

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Written by: Alan Cohen

Get Off Your Cross, Somebody Needs the WoodCould it finally be time in the evolution of humanity to revisit our belief in the value of suffering? Many religions and belief systems accept suffering as an inescapable reality, and even glorify it. Christians stoically sing of bearing the old rugged cross. Hindus justify poverty and disease as the paying off of karma...

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Why Is It That Kids Get Hostile When They Expect Hostility?

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Written by: John Head, Duke University

Why Is It That Kids Get Hostile When They Expect Hostility?When children expect aggression from others, it may cause them to be overly aggressive themselves, a new study finds.  While the pattern is more common in some cultures than others, a four-year longitudinal study involving 1,299 children and their parents finds it is true in 12 different cultural groups from nine countries around the globe.

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From Guilt to Bliss Through Indulging in Chocolate

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Written by: Stasia Bliss

From Guilt to Bliss Through "Indulging" in ChocolateThink of the last time you ate some chocolate. Did you feel you had to sneak it? Did you eat too much and regret it afterward? Did you hog down the lot of the precious morsels? And how did you feel after your escapade? Were you able to enjoy the chocolate fully? I certainly hope so!

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Love and Forgiveness: The Antidotes to Fear and Blame

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Written by: Gary Holz D.Sc. and Robbie Holz

Love and Forgiveness: The Antidotes to Fear and BlameOne morning Rose began our session by saying it was time for me to take a very important journey. “It’s a journey we all must take within this lifetime. It’s the journey that takes us from being a child to becoming an adult. And what you need to make this journey are the powers of love and forgiveness.”

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Judging By Appearances: The Alcoholic Saint

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Written by: Alan Cohen

Judging By Appearances: The Alcoholic SaintA fellow set out to find a particular saint who lived in a remote village. The shopkeeper told him he would find the saint under a certain tree, teaching disciples. Excited, the seeker made his way to tree, but instead of finding the saint he saw a drunkard blabbing with a couple of guys.

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Do You Have What You Need to Be Happy?

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Written by: M.J. Ryan

You Can Be Happier“What was going on? What do you want?” She looked up at me and wailed, “I just want to be happy.” Don’t we all? No matter who we are or what our circumstances, isn’t that what we each long for? Happiness, the experience of the sheer joy of being alive.

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Shedding Light on The Ego’s Weapon of Guilt

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Written by: Michael Jones

Shedding Light on The Ego’s Weapon of GuiltWhen we cut through the smoke and mirrors of guilt, we can see that the thoughts and emotions that ignite guilt are all made up. When our self-awareness “muscles” strengthen, we find that we’re less apt to fall into the default pattern of simply reacting to the unconscious flow of our thoughts and emotions.

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Are You Biased? You May Be Surprised at the Answer

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Written by: Shilo Rea, Carnegie Mellon University

We Have No Idea How Biased We AreIt has been well established that people have a “bias blind spot,” meaning that they are less likely to detect bias in themselves than others. However, it hasn’t been clear how blind we are to our own actual degree of bias, and how many of us think we are less biased than others.

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