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Shame: It's Unhealthy, Self-Destructive & Extremely Toxic

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Written by: Mary Hayes Grieco

Shame: It's Unhealthy, Self-Destructive & Extremely ToxicShame is an unhealthy and extremely toxic emotion that makes a person very sick inside. It plays out in families and in society in a self-destructive and violent way, and it is at the root of addiction as well as all forms of abuse. You can heal your shame...

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We Owe These 5 Research Discoveries To Twins

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Written by: Catriona May-University Of Melbourne

We owe these 5 research discoveries to twinsTwin research has led to all kinds incredible insights into an important mystery: nature vs. nurture or how the environment and our genes affect our health.

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The Enemy Within Is Ruled by Fear & the Need for Security

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Written by: Paulo Coelho

The Enemy Within: Ruled by Fear & the Need for SecurityWhen asked how he had become so successful, he replied, that until days ago he was living as the “Other”. “What is the Other?” asked Pilar. “The Other believes that the obligation of man is to spend a lifetime thinking about how to have security...

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Can We Stop Hiding and Connect through the Joy of NonAttachment?

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Written by: Susan L. Westbrook, PhD.

Perfectly Imperfect Connections: The Joy of NonAttachmentThe first step to connection is to open ourselves to the possibility that we can survive the hurts and failures that inevitably accompany our humanity and that of those around us. Self-protection, in the long run, is self-destruction. If we hide out long enough...

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Why More Teenage Girls Are Self-Harming Than Ever Before

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Written by: Chris Nicholson, University of Essex

Why More Teenage Girls Are Self-Harming Than Ever BeforeA recent report showed there had been a steep rise in incidents of self harm among teenage girls. The findings, based on data from GP practices across the UK, show that self harm among girls aged 13 to 16 has risen by 68% in the past three years.

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Priming the Deep Wellspring of the Heart

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Written by: Suzanne Scurlock-Durana

Priming the Deep Wellspring of the HeartAlthough the energy field of the heart has been proven to be quite powerful, in our culture today the voice of the heart is often muted or ignored altogether. When our heart’s intelligence isn’t activated, we can easily feel confused, or we may listen only to the voice of the head telling us what we should do.

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How To Let Yourself Off the Hook Using Forgiveness

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Written by: William R. Yoder

Forgive and Let Yourself Off the HookIf you think of forgiveness as “letting someone off the hook,” you believe that you are doing someone else a favor by forgiving them. After all, they are really guilty and deserve your judgment and condemnation.

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Dealing With The Fear Of Disapproval And Other Challenges

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Written by: Barbara Berger

Dealing With The Fear Of Disapproval And Other Challenges

Many people mistakenly think or fear that their choices and behavior will displease others and be the cause of another person's displeasure or unhappiness. It could be their partner, their parents, their children, their friends. The fear is that if you or I do what feels best to us – it might make someone else unhappy.

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How To Free Ourselves By Forgiving Others

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Written by: Julia Cameron

How To Free Ourselves By Forgiving OthersThere are few emotions as uncomfortable as resentment. An old say­ing sums it up well: "We drink the poison and then wait for the other person to die." Resenting others, we do poison ourselves. When our energy is spent on...

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The Desire for Safety, Security and Authenticity

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Written by: Colette Baron-Reid

authenticityBecause of recent global financial upheavals, people are more aware than ever of their need to feel that the ground beneath them won’t open up and swallow them whole. Even those who know they can count on friends, family, and community to support them in a time of crisis long to...

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Overcoming Doubt to Find Flow in Life Decisions

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Written by: Anne Tucker

Get Rid of Ambiguity and Feel Good About The Choices You Make

Many individuals experience dissatisfaction and doubt in various life areas, leading to paralysis in decision-making. By understanding where doubt originates and refining personal decision processes, one can break free from this cycle. Embracing a more effective decision-making approach can restore flow and align one with their true path.

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Why Your Brain Loves Feeling Outraged and Punishing People's Bad Behavior

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Written by: Molly Crockett

mental outrage 10 10Get mad when you read the news these days? It's more than just what you're reading. When you perceives unfairness or inequality, says Molly Crockett, the brain receives it more-so as an attack on identity. 

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Hollywood Stuntman’s Fear Blocking Technique

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Written by: Curtis Rivers

Hollywood Stuntman’s Fear Blocking TechniqueI feel fear exactly as you do. I’m certainly no daredevil, despite what you might expect of a member of The Hollywood Stuntmen’s Hall of Fame! Nor am I an “adrenaline junkie,” despite the Guinness World Records I hold.

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Your Pain Body and Your Joy Body: Which One Will You Feed?

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Written by: Meg Beeler

Your Pain Body and Your Joy Body: Which One Will You Feed?Almost everyone carries accumulations of old emotional pain, what Eckhart Tolle calls the “pain-body.” This pain-body feeds on what has happened in the past, and feeds on negative thinking and drama in relationships. Your joy-body stores family, ancestral, and collective joy. It feeds on positive, transporting experience.

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How Child Abuse Can Alter The Adult Brain

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Written by: Katherine Gombay-McGill University

child abuse 10 2Child abuse and other traumatic childhood experiences may alter the brain, making the effects of trauma last into adulthood.

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Criticism Leads to Anxiety, Fear, and Unhappiness

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Written by: Carl Alasko, Ph.D.

Criticism Leads to Anxiety and FearLiving with anxiety and fear creates unhappiness and despair in all our relationships. However, most of us suffer from too much anxiety and fear primarily because our communications provoke these destructive emotions through criticism, accusa­tion, punishment and humiliation. So reducing the anxiety and fear caused by...

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Squirrels, Like Humans, Use Chunking To Organize Their Nuts

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Written by: Yasmin Anwar-UC Berkeley

Squirrels, Like Humans, Use Chunking To Organize Their NutsFox squirrels are a lot more organized than we thought—storing their stashes of nuts by variety, quality, and possibly even by preference. A new study is the first to show evidence that squirrels arrange their bounty—at least 3,000 to 10,000 nuts a year—using “chunking”...

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Getting Sober and Remembering What Is Real

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Written by: Alan Cohen

Getting Sober and Remembering What Is RealWhen an event sobers us, it dashes cold water on our face to extricate us from the drunkenness of the meaningless activities we often engage in. We are awakened from the addictive behaviors we use to distract ourselves from our pain.

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The Challenge Of Being The Caregiver

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Written by: Anne Morjanoff

The Challenge Of Being The CaregiverAlmost in disbelief we were confronted by Barry’s diagnosis of throat and thyroid cancer, which within weeks lead to many medical consultations, pathology tests, ultrasounds and on to surgery. As his partner and then caregiver, the challenge of supporting him through that journey was daunting.

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Tips on How (and Why) to Express Gratitude and Appreciation at Home

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Written by: Marcia Naomi Berger, MSW, LCSW

Tips on How (and Why) to Express AppreciationCan you recall the last time you complimented your spouse? What if compliments aren’t flowing in your relationship? If that’s true, expressing appreciation may feel awkward at first. Accept the feeling and do it anyway!

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Getting Rid of Road Rage: Start Where You Are

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Written by: Ashley Davis Bush, LCSW

Getting Rid of Road Rage: Start Where You AreLook at the people in other cars in front of you, behind you, passing around you, and recognize that each one of them is just like you: They want happiness and they want to be free from suffering. To each person you focus on say or think something like...

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